Attention guys! We women have our own lives! We don’t just sit around all week waiting for you guys to make plans with us, so stop asking us out at the last minute and expect us to be available. We have friends , we have other dates or we may have plans to have some “me” time, so do not expect us to drop everything and go meet you. We have to accommodate to your schedule? How dare you ? Put in some effort, ask us out days in advance so that we can enjoy our time with you. It sucks when we just get home from work and receive a text from you asking to meet in an hour’s time. I mean an hour??? Hell we need more than 1 hour to get ready and you expect us to shower, put on our dress and get our make up done in 1 hour or maybe less if we have to travel to you.
So girls, listen up. When a guy ask you out at the last minute, please ignore them, or reschedule. I know the risk that comes with this. You may risk him never calling you again or never asking you out in a long time if you do this. But so what? In the first place he does not respect you enough or respect your time by asking you out at the very last minute.
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Anyway deep down you girls know what they want when they ask you out at the last minute right? SEX! Even if its not for that, they should show you some respect by asking you out in advance. I mean come on do you really want to be with a man who does not respect you. What you allow him to do to you now will set the tone for the rest of your relationship.He will forever have the upper hand.
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